Lil Sis Kick it While she Visits

Sorry to back track but something did happen on the 15th of June. It seemed like it was going to be a chill day and most likely nothing would be going today but as usual something would bound to occur later that night. I was seriously pretty tired still and not feeling the urge to go out. As the day went on no calls of any sort until maybe around 9p.m. where I get a text from Joryl saying Janelle aka "Lil Sis" wanted to go La Vics later that night. Of course I would be down to go haven't seen "Lil Sis" in a really long time so I tell him I'm down. TIme passes by though a lot of timeas 10 turns to 11 and 11 turns to 12 and I wonder why the delay. Janelle was watching a movie and it basically took forever but eventually we finally leave and then Janelle, Joryl, and I pick up Vince and head out to La Vics. It was a Tuesday night and I already knew that it might be packed because of specials at Sabor when they have two dollar drinks. The crowd wasn't too bad some cute girls like out of every 1 out of every 6 or 7. So we caught up and such and talked about how Janelle was coming up and when she's done she's going to pay for our bills and take us out. Yeah it took awhile to kick but always worth it to hang out with friends that I haven't seen in awhile.

Random DnBs Night

So its the 16th of June and Vegas is coming up and I really was not trying to go out and spend. I then get a random call from Marjorie to come out and go to DnBs that night. Since she was moving soon I felt that I probably should go but I was too tired to drive. Barely anyone wanted to come through until I talk to Dennis and Anna who said they would not only go to DnBs but take me as well so the offer I was looking for arose and I took it without a second thought. So dropped off my car at my cousin's place and Dennis picks me up and then from there off to DnBS. So when we get there we meet up with Mylene, Marjorie, and Arnel; later Arvin and Kevin are there as well. I took a shot with Mylene, Marjorie and Arnel i forgot what it was but yeah might as well right. It was pretty chill a lot of cuties out that night but the tru highlight of the night was bumping into someone I have not seen in ages. Yliana aka "Best Friend" was there and I swear at first I was like that has to be here but I'm not sure because she's supposed to be in San Diego but yeah it was her awesome right. "Best friend" in the flesh. Yeah that was a very good decision to go out that night and its all thanks to Marjorie.

Roger's Grad

So Roger's graduation in Davis was quite interesting the trip on the way there was pretty fun though. We left around 11 p.m. and on the way there I realized that I forgot my shoes at home during the rush of me leaving the house. So on this trip we made predictions of what would happen in Vegas and also stopped by a Wal*Mart so I could buy some shoes. I ended up buying these converse knock-offs called Faded Glory. Horrible for anything kind of shoe even though they did look like chucks. So we chill at Roger's apartment eat some Wendy's, drink some beer and whatever we wanted to do there. So Jake,Vince and myself did not got any sleep at all with it being so damn hot. So we chatted about actually more complained about how we could not sleep and watched some youtube videos and then by then it was already time to get ready for the graduation. As we were getting ready I realize that I forgot my belt as well which is all bad, because now I am in uncomfortable shoes and loose jeans; I lost weight by the way but yeah those where my challenges for the day. It was difficult staying awake for the ceremony barely made it some snoring a long the way from one of us but got through it. Seriously though the only thing keeping me awake was either a D.B. or U.S.

After the ceremony we ended up eating at some type of all you can eat sushi which was alright we ate with Roger's family, mom, dad sister and older brother. The food was not that great to be honest but it was very inexpensive so no reason to complain. Went home right after and knocked out on the way there as well as knocked out when I got home. It was a fun trip there were cute girls there "Ain't gunna lie", but yeah it's always all good to support a friend who made it through.

VInce's B-Day at Hooters

So yesterday was Vince's Birthday at Hooter's event. A lot of people showed up which I will list but it was definitely more than 20. I guess I could start off with Vince's Gamestop folks which I only know a few because they were the one's who I picked my reserved games from, Nathan, I think Brian, Ashley and someone who actually knows my cousins, Fortunato. and then some other people I didn't know. From our group I was there, Mylene, Jake,Vince, Drew,Jason, Keith, Joey,Sheila, Jordan, Nicole, Roger, Regie, Dennis,Anna, Kevin. So Vince's drinking adventure started when he finished a 40 oz before getting to Hooters or at least in the parking lot, then AMF, An Irish Car Bomb, a red bull vodka and 1 more AMF did not finish the Long Island and AMF though. It was enough for him to start yacking throughout Hooters on the way to the bathroom. It was a good turnout very fun, just a preview of things to come most likely. Went to tuttimelon after but Vince was knocked out in the car and we just chilled and then ended up going home.

Thoughts on today and other stuff...Ha-ha kinda

Well let's start with the fact that I wanted to sleep but for some reason I just can't therefore I am blogging. so there are two things i want to talk about today. The first would be how my day went today, so I'll start off on a good note before it gets serious.

So, today I went to Six Flags Discovery Kingdom in Vallejo. So it was me, Vince, and two of Vince's other friends, Fran and Beatrice, I think, oh well and also there was Regie, Vince's cousin Phil and niece Emma, cute baby haha. Well anyways yeah the new people were cool and yeah (ain't) not going to lie Vince's friend, Fran was really pretty just saying though. We went on a couple of rides saw some shows and walked around a lot, oh also I have not eaten for like the whole day just to add on. The day was fun though quite memorable, oh and i did get to ride everything yeah lost some weight. WHAT?! Went home finished the Laker game Woot woot Boston is weak. On a side note Fran would be a perfect example of the kind of kick it girl I described to Kwek, just saying.

So on a more serious note I'm ever so irritated with the way people have been acting towards handling certain situations with relationships with people. My opinion is this, life is very difficult as is and adding uncesscary problems just adds to the load that people already have to carry throughout their lives. There are different ways that a person can look at the word "miss". Example someone leaving, trying to hit something etc. you do not miss people that you have eliminated from your life and especially people that have done you wrong. It is definetly a waste of time and not worth the worry to care about someone that you dropped. If people complain about other people yet they miss them does not make any sense at all to me. The reason why they can be seen as gone is a particular reason in which a person may drop them. Those type of people become DEAD weight meaning they only bring you down so why have those type of people around especially if you want to come up. If what that person did was not to your liking or did something to you that you take offense why give them the satisfaction of having your time. Why do they deserve your concern at all. People just need to get over stupid ,emphasis on unnecessary, shit. With all that worrying we truly can not appreciate the other wonderful and beautiful things of the world that surrounds us. In other words QUIT YOUR BITCHIN'!!!!

A side note no one has to agree with what I say it is strictly my opinion and can be taken anyway as a person may read, but if you ever see me and wonder why I enjoy my life more than you, you wouldn't have to think about that twice for the answer.

Thoughts on the change

Well one of the few things that occurred at the air port which I did say I was going to mention but Kwek did pass on the torch to fulfill the duties of the wise man as well as to complete the ying and yang of my conscience haha. The name I will not being putting out there in the open but this person will be at the time the Kwek substitute.

So moving on to my thoughts on this situation. Well so my best friend just left for the Phillipines to go to school and how do I feel about that? Since I heard the news my mindset was people have left me before, people I depended on, people who took care of me, etc.Kwek is no different form those people. He is just doing what he feels he has to do to get where he wants to go which is understandable. Certain people expect me to be the one who would be the most sad or the one who would cry at the airport. I can understand why as Kwek was the person I confided to most and took my side on any battle I had to go through. We both went through moments where we defied the higher power and practically ran away. As I mentioned earlier influential people have left me but the way I see it as I have become accustomed to is a test of taking what these people have taught to me and applying it becoming a stronger, smarter, and better person overall. From the past I've been told how the reason why I got so much tough love from my "cuzzins" is because they knew I could take it and if they were not around that I would be able to take care of myself and be the stronger person they know I am. So as people have come and gone the reason for tears just does not seem necessary knowing they will come back sooner or later. It doesn't take away the fact that I am really sad that my best friend has left the country, I just know that he will be back and with the knowledge that he bestowed upon me and as I apply it, it will be as he never left in the first place.

Kwek's Last Days in America

These last couple of days have been quite interesting within terms of the events that had conspired for the weekend.

Friday the day which I planned was very much a success as usual in more ways then one I suppose. These were the events or the levels of Kwek's Farewell party. 1st level was at Naru's Sushi in Newark for 99 cent saki and beer.










The next Level was at Hooters for half off all drinks, wine beer, and mixed drinks. This second level was Kwek's tipping point in which he did yak all over the place I guess. Not in a messy way but like outside and in garbages etc.






The last level which we actually had to drag him there was the Hayward Karaoke "Karopee Karopee". It took him awhile to get out of the car but eventually made his way out and even sang a song but obviously he was done for the night game over.





The next night I was barely even able to go out because of the tasks that I had to endure but still I went for the sake of the minimal time that Kwek was going to be here. Met at TGIF chilled I felt horrible but just thought I could feel horrible later. We hung out at Wal*Mart for a but and went home.

Last day before flight we had a big kick it with the group at Vince's house. Played some poker watched some movies, actually did some workouts and had breakfast together before the big day.

So the day has come where my dear friend Kwek would be going to the Phillipines for school and will be gone for awhile. Went to the airport and said our farewells and such and that was about it.Now he is in the air and all that could be done is wish him luck and come back soon.

Do not know why the upload does not work but the link to Kwek's farewell speech can be found here:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NjeUhwx2_M